The Awakening and Finding Joy in Portrait Photography

As I’ve moved from event photography into portraits and headshots, something unexpected started happening. I found myself enjoying the process on a whole different level. What started as a strategic shift for my business became a personal journey—one that’s allowed me to slow down, be more intentional, and really connect with the people I photograph.

Event photography gave me the opportunity to capture a lot of fast-moving, emotional moments. You have to be sharp and aware because anything can happen. And I appreciated that. But when I began focusing on portraits, I realized I was entering a space where the pace is different. Instead of reacting to everything around me, I get to build something with someone right in front of me. Every session becomes its own experience.

Key Takeaways

• Portrait photography invites deeper interaction and a more thoughtful pace.

• Understanding the client before the shoot makes a huge difference.

• Learning to be uncomfortable is part of growing as a photographer.

• Preparing intentionally, even with things like intake forms and music, helps build trust.

• Often, the most meaningful photo is the most relaxed one at the end of a session.

Embracing the Shift: From Events to Portrait Mastery

I didn’t wake up one day and decide to become a portrait photographer. The shift came gradually, with lots of second-guessing along the way. I had already built a solid portfolio through event and street photography, especially outdoor portraits. I leaned heavily on location. The setting always did some of the heavy lifting for me. If I wasn’t quite happy with the energy of a portrait, the background made up for it.

Studio portraits were different. There’s nothing to lean on. It’s just me, the subject, a backdrop, and a couple of lights. That felt terrifying at first. But I knew there was something valuable waiting on the other side of that discomfort.

At the same time, I was thinking about my business. Event work had its highs, but also a lot of uncertainty. Shifting into portrait photography gave me a better structure. Sessions were more predictable, and the relationships I was building with clients began to grow into something long-term. Families would return for annual sessions. Professionals needed updated headshots. Artists were looking for creative portraits to match their brand. This path gave me more room to create and build lasting value.

Cultivating Meaningful Connections in Portrait Photography

What I enjoy most about portraits is the space it creates for real connection. It’s a conversation before it’s a photoshoot. When someone steps in front of my camera, they’re trusting me with their image, their story, and maybe even their insecurities. I don’t take that lightly.

Before any shoot, I send out an intake form. Sure, it covers the usual details—what kind of shoot they want, how they plan to use the images—but it also asks about personal stuff. Favorite music. Favorite drink. TV shows they’re into. It’s these little things that help me understand the person I’m photographing.

Once they arrive at the studio, we don’t jump straight into the shoot. I’ll offer them water or coffee. We’ll talk about traffic, music, or something light to ease into the moment. I play the music they mentioned in their form. And I start building a space where they feel seen and heard. That atmosphere shapes the entire session.

One client mentioned they loved Game of Thrones, so I jokingly asked if they were going for a Jaime Lannister vibe. That simple moment broke the ice. We started laughing, and that connection led to better, more relaxed images.

Intentional Practices That Shape Better Portraits

I’ve found that preparation makes all the difference in creating portraits that feel honest. The intake form is just one part of it. Before a shoot, I think through how I want the session to flow. If someone says they’re playful, I’ll have a few fun poses in mind. If it’s a professional headshot, I’ll think about how to reflect both their professionalism and approachability.

For clients who are nervous, I try to provide some guidance ahead of time. I’ll send tips about what to wear or suggest they practice a few expressions in the mirror. Little things like that help them walk into the session feeling more confident.

The location also matters. In the studio, I aim to make it feel welcoming. But I’ve also shot people in their backyards, in parks, or cozy indoor spaces that hold meaning for them. That familiarity helps people relax, and that shows in their portraits.

Once we’re in the session, I keep communication open. I ask how they’re feeling, what they think of the process, and if they have ideas they want to explore. A young athlete I photographed lit up when he started talking about his sport. So I shifted gears and focused on capturing that energy. Those ended up being some of his favorite shots.

Finding My Rhythm Through Growth

I’ll be real with you—studio photography still makes me nervous sometimes. But I’ve started leaning into that discomfort instead of running from it. I’ve learned to accept that there’s always more to learn and that growth often comes with a little uncertainty.

I’ve spent time studying how makeup artists talk about their craft. I’ve watched fashion photographers work with creative directors. I’ve had the chance to shoot with experienced models who know their angles and how to communicate through posture. At first, I thought they made my job easier. But then I realized that saying that downplays their own talent and preparation. They’re doing their work, and I’m doing mine. The collaboration is what makes the session come alive.

One habit I’ve picked up is ending a look or set with a smile. It’s a small gesture, but it often results in the most authentic moment of the day. I’ve done this with experienced models who are used to delivering sharp editorial expressions. That smile, though? That’s the one I want in my portfolio. Because it captures something real and personal.

Maximize Your Photography Potential

The more I invest in understanding people, the better my photography becomes. Technical skills matter, but they’re not the whole story. Lighting setups, lenses, editing tools—they’re important, but they can’t replace the connection you build with someone during a shoot.

Knowing what kind of photographer I want to be has helped me focus. I love storytelling. I love helping people feel confident in front of the lens. That’s where my best work happens.

Setting personal goals keeps me moving. I’ve started working with more artists and creative professionals. I want to shoot for editorials. I want to tell stories through images in a way that sticks with people.

I also carve out time to learn. I’ve joined workshops, watched tutorials, and connected with other creatives. Recently, I read a book on visual storytelling that made me rethink how I frame my subjects. It reminded me that photography, at its core, is a form of communication.

Transform Your Photography Journey

My photography journey is constantly evolving. And if you’re on a similar path, my advice is simple: keep showing up. Keep adjusting. Keep asking questions. The learning never stops, and that’s a good thing.

Set goals you’re excited about. Ask for feedback from people you trust. Take the time to look back and recognize how far you’ve come. I reflect on my growth every few months, and each time I do, I’m reminded that the struggles, doubts, and learning curves are all part of it.

More than anything, find joy in the process. That’s where the good stuff lives. In the moments when a client opens up, when a session flows with ease, when a simple smile becomes the best shot of the day—that’s where I find meaning in what I do.

Who is Ramon Trotman as a Portrait | Headshot | Street Photographer

I’m Ramon Trotman, a photographer based in New Jersey. My work focuses on capturing people with honesty and care. Whether I’m working in the studio or out on the street, I aim to create images that feel real, thoughtful, and personal.

You can check out my creative work atCreative Portfolio: Ramon Trotman's Creative PortfolioInstagram: @ramontrotmanContact (Creative Projects): perspectiveramontrotman@gmail.com

For professional portraits and headshots:Professional Portfolio: https://ramontrotman.studio/Contact (Professional Inquiries): info@ramontrotman.studio

Thanks for spending your time here with me. Whether you're a fellow photographer or someone just exploring what this medium can offer, I hope my journey helps you on yours.